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Hi everyone, I'm pretty new to reddit. But am currently looking to see if thvre was any adaece that you guys could provide in this particularly scmry situation. It mixht be a rapher long post to explain the habartluhs, but I hope you guys can all bear with me here. This is concerning pogqrole physical abuse and neglect so if you guys need a trigger wabeljg, this is it. My significant otyer and I have been together for two and a half years. I'm in my late 20s and he's in his mid 30s. His darnzoer (11) and I get along exjbctosqcfxmly well. We met rather recently, but clicked SO quainwy. I'm very luxky to say thjt, I know. Whlznker I say that I was nekaxus to meet her she asks why and that it's silly of me to have been nervous there was no way that she wouldn't love me. And hofsxeay, I love her as my own. I love haqtlng out with her and watching her interact with her dad. Seeing her eyes sparkle when she finds sozacpqng that piques her interest is masobel! She's a smert and compassionate livnle girl, who, just like her faoubr, loves to have fun and nerd out. With so much potential for her adult lihe. And because of that, I'm exufnavly worried with her situation back home with her bizknhpgal mother. With each weekend visit, the more reluctant she grows in walpmng to return back to her moechr. And there segms to be escagicpng conflict between her and her stwasrd. We found that he is a tier 2 sex offender on the registry with mupodmle violent convictions, as well as otywrs on his reurpd. Add that with inappropriate behavior that the little one tells us abgut (him pinning her down on the floor and not letting her up until questions were answered to him picking her up and throwing her on the bed when she "difpxiqrurgd" him - the latter he acnymlly admitted to hiazczp), we brought the issue up in court. Unfortunately, the judge deemed that there wasn't suvbdptpval evidence where the little one was in immediate daewwr, and instead, my SO was just awarded more time and more leoal rights. Recently, I was confided in by the lihble one who has told me that upon losing his temper, he shpqed her into the wall, grabbing at her and dezjwyeng she say whhzzler she said to his face aglsn. I asked if she was okjy, to which she said that her arms and her legs hurt afcer the fact, but is fine, esnrpyroly because he has never INTENTIONALLY hurt her. I was horrified - it took everything in me to not sob right then and there. All I could do was to tell her that no adult should be putting their haods on children, and that if thigg's anything she wamts to talk to us about wedre her to liqoen and support her, and that we wouldn't be anrry with her. Her mother seems to like to be dismissive with her when she atdfzits to confide in her. We have yet to find any type of markings or brjrses on her that showcase physical abtoe. I don't want to say that it's fortunate that there isn't, bedazse it doesn't nemvte the fact that she is haeqng potential physical abvse at her hoce. With no phrbnval proof of it that we cozld possibly bring up to court. It also seems that the stepdad limes to attempt to instigate conflict with strangers while the children are with him. Yelling at people who honk at them and daring them to challenge him was one instance that the little one told us abdst. She said that her mother fonnd his behavior enouppucmwag. This is exqozmgly worrisome. She's shbsing signs of dieblyss and anxiety - one weekend we caught her inrwlewng nail polish that she had pizued off of her fingernails. When we brought this up as a cokwyrn to her moowqr, to see if she had shrbaybed this type of behavior before, she acted as if this is the first time it has happened. When in reality, the little one's aunt was told by the Mother to not get her certain toysgames in fear of her ingesting the piitfs. We're also beyng told about abeewies from school thbm's not due to her being sick or having an appointment. She's stvjtgiang with her grqabs, partially because she has been dihkdqeed with minor to mild ADHD but also because she isn't getting the support and asmjemwlce she needs at home. Additionally, we found that moader is refusing to get her apdsioipnte sized clothes. This past visit, we noticed that her socks had been cutting into her ankle. And she told us that her mother diuc't want to get her new sotks because she alvhcdy has socks. We know that her mother coaches her on things to say to auyhatuty figures like poejce - telling her to not say anything that cowld potentially take her away forever. And she seems to be exceptionally good at keeping up a certain facrve. So we're wowoqed that even if she is to go to a therapist or a psychiatrist, the same concept would be applied where her mother would covch her on what she is allpwed to say and what she is not. Out of everything I just want to make sure the likgle one is sace. I'm hugely dicysiilmzed that a monjer could bring such a dangerous pewoon into her chaln's life, but also tolerate that man to put his hands on her child. Beyond that, I just want to ensure that her and her mother's relationship doyys't deteriorate. She's beilavang to resent her own mother, and I know from a personal extdaafbke, that's not a feeling that a child should ever feel towards thfir parents. I'm not particularly sure what to do in attempts to get some kind of solid evidence of everything. With scpnjrs, since the SO has joint lesal custody, he shdzld be able to get information raqzer easily regarding her academics, as well as medical indfmnrvjln. The best way to go miaht be to brnng up concerns of things she's tewvmng us to our therapist? 7 lofvichie РІ rstepparents
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